Lovelife…

Okay, so I know dating is a part of most people’s lives - you meet new people, have all sorts of different relationships, breakup, lather, rinse, repeat.

I know some people think I’m missing out, but to be honest, I’m so, so thankful to have the lovelife that I do. I’m happy that my relationship is as stable as it gets - that doesn’t mean we don’t fight. There’s lots of fighting. But at the end of the day, it’s still something secure. I don’t have to wonder whether or not it’s still there.

A certain person has made me think about how lucky I am to have Erik - I mean, sure, Erik isn’t always here physically, but he’s never emotionall absent. We never go a day without saying that we love each other and miss each other, and we mean it every time. I worry about him, I don’t worry that he’s out doing something to betray my trust. I’m happy having a simple, quiet life, because I feel safe in my relationship.

It just makes me feel happy to have what I have.